Boyfriend of 2 years and I got into an argument last night over text messaging. I have a DD from a previous relationship who he is very good with. He comes on family days out, stays over etc. The argument started to become quite heated as he told me I was "chatting shit" so I said:
"Okay, with that I am ending the conversation here."
He then replies:
"Fuck off then, you're a joke. Go find another baby daddy."
I thought not only is this derogatory to me, but also to women and single parents in general.
I then said:
"Well at least I know what you think of me now."
He then said he was frustrated and shouldn't have spoken to me like that, it was rude and he is sorry.
I haven't spoken to him since, despite him sending two follow up messages.
AIBU to absolutely not forgive him and to think this is clearly an ingrained belief he has or else he wouldn't have said it?
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Would you forgive your boyfriend if he said this to you?
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meganwildrose · 18/01/2021 16:16
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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You are NOT being unreasonable
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