Aware this could get a bit off backlash but anyway...
AIBU to be getting pissed of at the amount of online shopping and unnecessary items my DW is buying, considering we’re meant to be saving and purchasing a house in the next couple month?
Backstory: We are both living with my parents whilst our house purchase goes through, hopefully by March. I work full time from home, as such do 75% of all chores and childcare, in addition to homeschooling. DW works part time in a cafe, remaining time is spent on social media and online shopping. Recently during a deep clean and sort out it was discovered that a large percentage of her wardrobe still had the tags on, never worn, and yet if the online shopping is questioned am told it’s all things that are ‘needed’.
In addition, although both our names will be on the mortgage, I am funding the entire deposit, and will ultimately be paying the mortgage as my salary enables this.
YABU - It none of my business what she buys, leave her to it.
YANBU - Allowed to be pissed off, all seems a little one sided.
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AIBU to be getting pissed off with DW?
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NiceRedWine · 16/01/2021 18:31
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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You are NOT being unreasonable
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