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Whilst using my DHs phone if come across a WhatsApp conversation between him and a friend of ours. (She's married also) know each other for 15 years.
12 year age gap between them (if that matters)
These messages go back to 2018 that I can see.
They are everyday from good morning to good night.
A lot of use of nicknames for each other I've never heard.
More than an acceptable amount of ambiguity and innuendo from both sides.
Kisses on all messages and laughing faces.
He's spoke about me in a derogatory way more than a few times.
And tonight the conversation about how when he gets rid of me those 2 are off into the sunset together 
Im just so shocked and devastated. I'm currently hiding upstairs watching a movie with the kids.
I can't bring myself to ask him. He always calls her his best friend and sounding board and seeing these messages makes me think there's more to it. They have so much in common and speak the same language so to speak.
AIBU to tell him it's a emotional affair and not a friendship and tell him to block her? He's never done anything like this before.
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AIBU to tell him to block her
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twinkylights · 02/01/2021 17:48
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