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Doing this to a child is wrong

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fuckxmas · 27/11/2020 18:09

BBC report : His said his 14-year-old daughter had not left her bedroom for four days, with meals being left outside her door, until the family learned the result was void on Thursday

This is so wrong to do to a child

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lovelilies · 27/11/2020 18:12

Do you mean because of not having a toilet? (Not seen the article)
What part is wrong?

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PinGwyn · 27/11/2020 18:16

My 14yo does this most days through choice tbh!

Totally depends on the circumstances and context.

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YouCantBeSadHoldingACupcake · 27/11/2020 18:17

Assuming they were waiting for a COVID test and trying to avoid passing it on to the rest of the family, not unreasonable

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JoeCalFuckingZaghe · 27/11/2020 18:18

Would have been my dream tbh. Guessing covid related, “until a test was void”? Link to article?

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JoeCalFuckingZaghe · 27/11/2020 18:18

*as a 14yo that is

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SquareSausage17 · 27/11/2020 18:18

What’s the context? What result is being discussed?

It’s stupid to post a single sentence - nobody can judge how reasonable this is without knowing the background.

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OverTheRainbow88 · 27/11/2020 18:19

I agree OP, it’s totally inhumane to keep
A child totally isolated in their room.

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TicTacTwo · 27/11/2020 18:19

Many 14yo (including mine)would enjoy self isolating like that.

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PurpleDaisies · 27/11/2020 18:19

This is from a report about people who were wrongly told they were covid positive because of faulty test chemicals.

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jennie0412 · 27/11/2020 18:19

Better than spreading it to the whole family, who then passes it on to other people, them to their family, etc etc etc

Hmm

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PurpleDaisies · 27/11/2020 18:20

Here if anyone wants to read it..,

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-55107272

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PurpleDaisies · 27/11/2020 18:20

I agree posting without context I’d really unhelpful.

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OverTheRainbow88 · 27/11/2020 18:20

@TicTacTwo

Mine was enjoy eating choc all day... Doesn’t mean it’s good for them.

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IMNOTSHOUTING · 27/11/2020 18:22

Impossible to tell without any context. If they were waiting for a covid test presumably they had to be at home anyway. Given they were 14 not 4 they might have been more than happy to stay in their room.

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Nottherealslimshady · 27/11/2020 18:23

I agree, he had to stay home anyway so why not just be in contact with her, he would still have to isolate for the same length of time if she got a positive test. Seems like they didn't really think it through. Unless there's someone seriously vulnerable in the house.

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tigger001 · 27/11/2020 18:24

We know a family who's daughter self isolated in her bedroom for 14 days as she had been on holiday with her father and upon returning to the blended family home they needed to protect the other vulnerable daughter.

It hasn't scarred her for life

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WorraLiberty · 27/11/2020 18:25

@fuckxmas

BBC report : His said his 14-year-old daughter had not left her bedroom for four days, with meals being left outside her door, until the family learned the result was void on Thursday

This is so wrong to do to a child

Literally nowhere in your quote or in the link that another poster helpfully provided, does it say it was done to the child.

At 14 she's perfectly capable of deciding to stay in her room for fear of infecting her family.
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nancybotwinbloom · 27/11/2020 18:25

I wish my husband had to isolate in our bedroom for 14 days

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PurpleDaisies · 27/11/2020 18:25

I would have loved to spend two weeks in my room as a fourteen year old.

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GailsPlait · 27/11/2020 18:25

Assuming it was the result of a covid test not the result of a pregnancy test it's fine. I'd rather stay in my bedroom for four days than pass it on to my family. Imagine how a 14 year old would feel if they passed it to their sibling or parent who then died from it. Not their fault obviously but they'd feel so guilty.

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GailsPlait · 27/11/2020 18:27

@PurpleDaisies

I would have loved to spend two weeks in my room as a fourteen year old.

I'd still love to stay in my room with someone bringing me food for two weeks now.
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WorraLiberty · 27/11/2020 18:28

It was only 4 days anyway, not two weeks.

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LabradorGalore · 27/11/2020 18:29

Talk about overreaction OP.

Most families are self isolating their teens this way if they can. I’m assuming she still went to the bathroom.

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OverTheRainbow88 · 27/11/2020 18:29

@tigger001

That the know of yet!

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jennie0412 · 27/11/2020 18:31

@OverTheRainbow88 Don't be ridiculous

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