This is complicated, I'll try to be brief.
DSD15 is a shit at school, and has been locked in an ongoing fight with a similar twat of a child for months.
Both girls were excluded for a fortnight following a physical fight three weeks ago, and have been back a week.
Other girl has been very vocal towards DSD (who is no angel, I 100% believe she's been giving back as good as she gets) but no more physical incidents.
Today I have been asked to pick her up 10mins early as the other girl has assembled some adult male relatives to meet DSD outside school, and beat her up. Cousins, I believe.
According to DSD, these people actually turned up in the school reception earlier.
Whilst I am disgusted with DSDs behaviour, and that of the other girl on an ongoing basis, I feel that this has crossed a line into something totally different. Moving from a school spat to a planned, well, attack.
What the hell should my next move be?!?
Do I turn up at school prepared to collect and whizz home ignoring the potential issue, do I notify the police, or do I approach them myself and say 'for Christ's sake, what ARE you doing?'
The pissed off side of me wants to just March up and say wtf is wrong with you all, but my sensible head says if they're prepared to walk into a school to smack a child, I'm likely to end up with a thump?!?
Honestly, I have never known of anything so bloody ridiculous in all my life, and must stress how absolutely disgusted I am at everyone involved. But right now, I have an hour to work out how to manage this! HELP!
(I am at the end of my tether with this, it been a long line of issues this year, and I just want some fucking respite. But that's another thread)
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SlipperTripper · 26/11/2020 13:27
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