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Neighbours party

101 replies

ShakinScarecrow · 01/11/2020 00:28

My neighbour is having a party. They have a marquee in their garden and people are in and out of the house and garden. It's an adults birthday party and they are playing loud-ish music. There's 15+ people there.
This is in London so under tier 2 restrictions.
I'm in bed BTW.
WWYD?
A) ignore, none of my business
B) report to non emergency police website
C) get out of bed, get dressed and go round and speak to them

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Am I being unreasonable?

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Cookiedough123 · 01/11/2020 00:28

A

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MrsEricBana · 01/11/2020 00:30

B

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Cabinfever10 · 01/11/2020 00:31

B

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Arkestra · 01/11/2020 00:31

B

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LibrariesGiveUsPower45321 · 01/11/2020 00:33

B

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Thisisnotnormal69 · 01/11/2020 00:33

B, usually wouldn’t bother but I’m fucking fed up of this when people can’t follow the bloody rules because they think it doesn’t apply to them

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neddle · 01/11/2020 00:33

B

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Stayfreshcheesebags · 01/11/2020 00:34

A , leave them to it. I also find the idea of reporting our neighbours to the authorities for stuff like this a bit sinister and very 1984-esque

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AtrociousCircumstance · 01/11/2020 00:35

B.

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CuppaZa · 01/11/2020 00:37

B

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catchyjem · 01/11/2020 00:37

B

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Frazzledme · 01/11/2020 00:38

B
Nothing sinister about it, people shouldn't be arseholes having a party in the middle of a pandemic.

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Lolwhat · 01/11/2020 00:39

A, you need neighbours who will watch over your house on holiday and not a neighbour war

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BlankProfile · 01/11/2020 00:39

A

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EdinaMonsoon · 01/11/2020 00:39

B

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ThorsMistress · 01/11/2020 00:39

B. Myself and my partner both work in the catering industry so as of Thursday will not be working for a month. I’m getting completely fed up of abiding by all these lock down rules whilst others seemingly ignore them.

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OldAndWornOut · 01/11/2020 00:42

B.
And I'd still ask them to watch over my house.
Fight arseholeness with arseholeness. Smile

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 01/11/2020 00:44

A- It’s all very well people saying B. However they’re going to be your neighbors long after Covid has gone. It’s terrifying the way they’ve got neighbourhoods turning on each other.

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TigerBrite · 01/11/2020 00:46

B. They are being dicks and putting us all at risk. Dob them in!

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Frazzledme · 01/11/2020 00:46

Lol watch over the house on holiday? If your neighbours are selfish enough to keep you up with a party in covid, they're not going to be paying any attention to any goings on that might occur when you're away. A covid party is like a neighborhood announcement that they don't give a crap about anyone else nearby.

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littlefireseverywhere · 01/11/2020 00:47

B

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GinAtMerlottes · 01/11/2020 00:47

A

Or C if you have babies they are keeping awake/work tomorrow.

B is..... morally wrong. It’s far, far more wrong than your neighbours having friends around their house, and I am frightened that people can’t see it.

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Frazzledme · 01/11/2020 00:50

@Awwlookatmybabyspider having a party is a bit of an insightment for bad feeling though surely? If you have neighbours you're risking a lot (good feeling, respect, support) for a party. Is it worth it?

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cloudylemonade13 · 01/11/2020 00:53

B - if they're keeping the street awake. They're being selfish arseholes. If they're not disturbing you, leave them to it.

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Bookworming · 01/11/2020 00:53

A

and try to sleep

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