Just spoke to a 12yo on our green.. He and another had been repeatedly taunting a younger child over last few days. Chanting a song with the child's name in it, rounding the child on their bikes while chanting etc. So today I went out and I said I was speaking to him as I knew he was older than the others and would understand why the behaviour was unkind. He said the child had called him a name. I said that was also wrong but it is different to taunting as a habit and to purposely upset someone. He replied it was a bit of fun. I told him in school it would be seen as bullying behaviour and he disagreed, says it happens all the time in his class. I told him that if he's purposely doing something else to upset someone for fun it is unkind and did he understand that? No he said quite unmoved. I find this so depressing tbh. That even when an adult spoke calmly and even calmly to him, he could see no wrong. Hate to think what he'll be doing unchecked in a few years.
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