Hi all, I'd really appreciate some advice for others who might have been through the same situation.
My retired parents have hired carers to come to their house 3 times a day, 7 days a week for 1 hour per visit recently- they hired them within the last month.
Dad has (3 days ago) been diagnosed with vascular dementia and my mum has had servere, demolishing depression for 4 years.
Dad doesn't really want carers but needs them to prepare meals, wash up and do basic things like take out the bins.
My concern is recently I've been off work to take dad to appointments and if i randomly come in the house:
X The carers aren't wearing PPE at all!
X They're late by 30 minutes to an hour for their start time- no call or explanation!
X the carers don't seem to do abything; don't engage with parents, house is a shit heap, no washing has been done, floor really obviously dirty, fridge empty almost as if a carer hasn't even been in, let alone three in any 24 hour period!! 7 days a week!! I went in today randomly and the fridge was full of empty food packets. Nothing had been done.
It's heart breaking. I can't afford to give up my job (my own family depend on it).
Should I complain to the carer company? Am I expecting too much?! Wtf, this is the first really experience I've had with carers.
My parents are paying £25,400 PER YEAR for carers to come in 3 times a day, every day per year.
Am I being unreasonable to think they should wear PPE, actually mop the floor, wash clothes? Ensure fridge is semi full of food?
It's so depressing to feel my parents are being taken advantage of.
I work full time and am there when I can be,, hence why we've employed carers!!
AIBU?
Are carers taking the piss?
londewy123 · 24/10/2020 21:06
Am I being unreasonable?
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