Hi- any thoughts please ?
So I recently had a miscarriage and it was awfully traumatic, still having counselling as it physically was a complicated process and mentally anyone who has had a mc will know how damaging it is..
Anyhow at the same time my sil announced her pregnancy..firstly I thought it was tasteless the way in which she surprise announced to us all full well knowing I had literally just returned from a mc, since then her whole pregnancy she has spoken of nothing but the bump, movements etc etc. We used to be quite friendly and now I just choose not to entertain her as much as I once did-So she reverted to putting up ridiclous statuses on her social media which indicated that one should not be jealous etc etc. I ignored all this and to my face she is all smiles.
Now the baby is born and nothing has changed; she sends me an average of 10 pics a day of the baby, constantly tells me how it’s the most beautiful child she has seen, recently told me she is already trying for a 3rd as she is worried she will get old and have difficulties ( I am 2 years older than her)
This is her second child and my issue is teh lack of compassion, everyone in my family knows what I went through... she has never since the miscarriage asked if I am okay, how things are l, how I am feeling - nothing. And the constant in my face of her child/ pregnancy planning is affecting my mental health - AIBU?
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Zara84 · 22/10/2020 01:22
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