I hate confrontation. One of my DIL makes a point of making overt criticisms of all her husband's siblings. My DH says she is insecure and we should just ignore. However, it is driving me nuts. She will make claims, eg, my DD landed her with her kids on the pretext of being only an hour and then lied about a traffic jam to excuse being late (untrue) another DD cheated them out of 2 months rent ( proved untrue), There are many examples and I am becoming increasingly angry. On the other hand my DS is happily married to her and I do not want to cause dischord for his sake. So one solution is not passing on her remarks - but then I feel that I am colluding in her deception. In the most recent instance I did pass on one of the allegations and my DD went nuts and called her brother - who had no idea what she was talking about because his wife had simply invented it. Things are very complex - I genuinely like my DIL and if her lies stayed exclusively with me they would cause no damage. But we are at the stage where some of my kids are blanking others and I am not sure how much of this is due to DIL. WWYD
AIBU?
to tackle dil every time she rubbishes my kids
lesleyw1953 · 21/09/2020 00:00
Am I being unreasonable?
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