Myself, dh and two dc currently been living long term with family ( long story involving nightmare sale of prevuous property, job loss etc)
Anyway now need to move out by Jan.
Have offer in on house in area we like. Dh hates house and agreed offer on condition we move in 2 years which I agreed to as a)agree house not ideal for our family and b) dc1 would have got into the good local school. We'd stay in the same town.
Property is below our budget so low mortgage every month.
Dh now seen properly he thinks is perfect. It's much bigger and has very good schools too. £100k more so absolute top of our budget. Problem is I hate the area! Boring, nothing really there. Nice, middle class but dull. (I currently teach in that area. ) couldn't imagine going for walk with dc in pram as nowhere to walk to!
Dh says location doesn't matter as I can get in my car and drive somewhere else whereas he can't leave the house he hates and go elsewhere. If we moved here I wouldn't want to move again for long haul as wouldnt be fair uprooting schooling and Dh says he couldn't bear another unnecessary move.
What would you do? Can't tell if I'm just being stupid and should go for sensible 'head' move to big house, good schoos etc and totally ignore my heart. Ps, I'd also have to move job eventually moving to the cheaper property as commute longer and could be tricky to find another pt teaching post.
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Should I do 'sensible' move to area i don't like?
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Jet888 · 17/09/2020 04:38
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
35 votes. Final results.
POLL
You are being unreasonable
69%
You are NOT being unreasonable
31%
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17/09/2020 07:00
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