Trying to go to sleep but can’t stop thinking about this.
I’ve been suffering with anxiety for many years, but it’s been particularly bad since my DD was born 6 years ago.
I’ve been to therapy and I’m currently on medication, but I still have plenty of bad days.
My husband recently mentioned if I’d ever considered it may be PTSD, because of my childhood. At the time I was surprised - I always thought I had a crappy childhood but honestly never thought about PTSD. But this is now playing on my mind - was my childhood just a bit crappy, or actual child neglect?
The context is - 3 siblings, poverty and mental health issues in the family.
Some examples playing in my mind:
- house extremely dirty, I was ashamed of it and always tried to avoid having friends over
- Clothes often dirty
- Constant fights between parents, particularly about money. Calling each other names.
- Fights between my brothers and parents, that got physical on many occasions.
- I remember being hit by my mother. Not often, but more than just spanking.
- I don’t remember ever being kissed or cuddle by my parents. Maybe I was, but I honestly can’t remember.
- I hated weekends and holidays, I just wanted to be in school and avoid being at home.
There are many other examples ...
I honestly never thought about it as neglect, could this just be parents struggling with life in general?