because dh is getting a bit of a social life going at the moment. He's a fab dh and dad, does more than his fair share of chores, kids, boring stuff etc.
REcently he joined the working mens club (yes ) which we had a kind of sarcastic joke about in that it has no female toilets because women aren't allowed and I said i'd report them to the European Court of Human Rights, but I didn;t mind really. It's local, it's very cheap and he goes with our next door neighbour for a game of pool or darts or whatever. He loves it in a kind of post-modern way, in that he knows it's an old man's haunt but he also genuinely enjoys it too. No problem with that...
But it's turning into a weekly thing, popping out for one of the weekend nights...
and now he's joined the snooker club there which will mean a THursday night playing matches every fortnight...
and he plays footy on a wed night and then goes to the pub for an hour...
and he's joining a sunday league footy team as well for sunday mornings...
and he sees his friends once every 3 or 4 weeks for a curry or night out.
and I'm starting to feel a bit lonely. If I want to go out he's fine with it and will always give my night priority over his, but I only go out once a month, if that.
oh and also he plays golf and plays in matches once a month on a wednesday, which he can often wangle as his day off - but it's also my day off as well so we don't spend it together. IT feels churlish to moan at him but it is making me a bit unhappy. It's not like he;s left me loads of jobs to do for the morning or anything - I just get fed up sat here on me tod!
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Moomin · 03/10/2007 22:49
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