I'm on day one of holiday, just arrived and seriously considering turning around and driving straight home again.
Reasons for going home :
- I've been hit by a wave of dark depression on way here, I'm crying, feel like I'm in a dark place. I feel so alone, and ugly, and unloved
- The weather here though at the beach is worse than where we came from, grey to reflect my mood
- The tide is out, my child doesn't understand, they are just asking over and over for the sea, it's far out
- The place we've come to I've spent a lot of money on, it doesn't feel worth it, it's more downtrodden that I thought or would be. I don't know what we're going to do here for a week. I could recoup some of the money by leaving straight away before we check in. It would total about £200 with fuel and lost deposit. If we stay ill have spent closer to £1000 on hotel, food in a week
Reasons against going home '
- I recognise I'm in a dark mood, it could lift, things could get better
- My child just wants a beach holiday, which this is... Sort of
I can't discuss it with my child, they are too small. They don't understand money or why mummy is crying. They want a happy childhood holiday, this isn't it. They want a happy mummy and I'm not that. I'm so unhappy this is what they will remember.
For context, I do suffer with severe depression, and am seeking treatment but really there isn't much on the NHS.