So it's my daughter's 4th birthday on Monday and for the past month been on the phone to MIL who wants to see her on her birthday but worried about the situation. She wants to go out for a meal instead of just being round our house where we have a garden so can social distance. She doesn't seem to understand that no matter what we do my children are going to want to hug them. My partner now has had enough of me bitching and is siding with his mum that going for a meal would be better. BUT I have no problem of them coming over and letting my children hug them because I know they haven't seen anyone in a while and we haven't seen anyone either
AIBU: go to the meal and SD
AINBU: they should let the children hug them.
My children are 2 and 4
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AIBU?
AIBU to tell my MIL not to bother?
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Thund3rMumma · 12/08/2020 20:29
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
41%
You are NOT being unreasonable
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