My next door neighbour has had issues with noise in the flat above.
It was bad when it was just the tenant and two small children but now there's 2 other adults living there and there's no carpets.
My neighbour wanted to sort it out amicably and even though she has told the housing association that it's extremely noisy, she has also spoken politely to the tenant.
We can also hear some of the noise but obviously being directly below, she bears the brunt of it.
I admired her ability to keep amicably speaking to the tenant.
However, the other two recent tenants, a brother and her new boyfriend have been verbally abusing the small children. It's been awful.
I obviously can't say if it's gone further than this as we can't see, only hear.
My neighbour texts me and talks to me about it a lot.
Last night she started to text me, saying she'd absolutely had enough and everything that had happened that day etc.
I said I was disappointed that after all that was reported 10 days ago, it seems nothing has changed.
She has been told that the children were already considered at risk but I don't know any more than that.
After listening to all her woes last night, I walked out of the door this morning and she was having a friendly chat with the tenant and the abusive boyfriend. She tried to include me in the conversation but I just walked away as I don't want to make pleasantries with a shit like him.
AIBU to think that she should not be making friendly conversation with him particularly and it totally gives the wrong message?
To be clear, everything has been reported in a timely manner to the appropriate people.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To think my neighbour shouldn't be so friendly now?
47 replies
abstractzebra · 12/08/2020 16:13
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.