OK so I'm hot and bothered so not in best of moods and it's 3am and I've been awake since 6am yesterday.
Had got up at 6 collected food Shopping mdh worked till lunchtime then did a tip run.
I did some laundry and general tidy between sorting the baby
Then I went to a family members for. Bbq
I went on ahead as the toddler was already there. Dh was going to meet me there...he took Forever. So OK tip could have been busy but its a 3.min drive.
He arrives. Has food etc. Gets in the pool family.
I'm holding and trying to keep a hot baby cool. Sorting toddlers sun cream, toilet runs etc.
Got to like 7pm and I got a. Bit narcky saying he should get out pool as I've done it all day with the kids making sure they're sorted.
He got out and with a family member joking about saying how he wasn't allowed back into pool. I didn't say that at all I just said that I'd had enough.
Got.home. He held. Baby I bathed toddler (she wanted me to)
I watered garden, washed bottles and did 1.load of washing.
I
We've then done some sorting together of some bits that we put off alot.
I get to bed utterly shattered as soon as close eyes. Baby wakes. 5 times. Which wakes.toddler
I make a bottle feed baby and put him down. . I go downstairs and think of. I sleep downstairs hell have to hear the kids. Put monitor on loudest in bedroom.
And try get sleep downstairs
Doors all shut. And 10 min later baby screaming. I can hear though closed doors. Yet he can't hear from next room and very loud monitor.
Ive gone up and had a bit of a moan. Because this is every night!
Baby wakes a few times. Toddler wakes for wee or sleepwalking.
I have max 6 hours a night of broken sleep. I'm. Mega grumpy.
Makes me now want to stay in Sunday with baby and he take toddler to family pool and bbq again. But I guarantee he'd say he's not going without me as not fair I stay in.. What's not fair is me doing everything I this heat and on bugger all sleep
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AIBU?
To be really pissed off with dh never hearing the kids wake at night and the crappy day
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DidSheReallySayThat20 · 09/08/2020 03:12
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