Hi all, firstly I am a parent of a child with autism and ADHD so I’m not clueless or ignorant about it all. I understand it’s hard work and I also know how long it can take to get a diagnosis but I can’t help feel annoyed at somebody I know.
She has a son of just turned 5 years old. The school mentioned a couple things about not being able to pay attention for long etc but told her they weren’t really concerned at that age. She then went home to read about adhd and basically self diagnosed him with it and refers to him as ADHD.
He has seen no professional about it (I know covid has made this hard but it started before then). She has literally self diagnosed him.
She’s refers to him as ADHD etc and uses it to to her advantage for sympathy (for her more than him), lets him get away with everything.
I sound really judgemental here and I don’t mean to be as a parent of a child with sen myself I know it can be isolating. Maybe he does have it. Some of the things she has said has suggested he could but I feel it’s too soon when he hasn’t seen a gp let alone a paediatrician, Ed psych etc etc. The school aren’t overly concerned either.
Aibu to be annoyed here? I’ve seen so much online about how people think Adhd doesn’t exist (of course it does!) but no wonder there is this judgement and these kinda views when people are self diagnosing and using it as an excuse?
Just to add, I knew my son had asd and ADHD before a diagnosis and I know how hard it is to get a diagnosis, sometimes you just know. But she has not seen one single professional about it, not one. She’s basically uses google and diagnosed a 4 year old with ADHD (he was 4 when this all started).
I think I just need to vent! Aibu?
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GJ14 · 08/08/2020 20:06
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