To think that I shouldn't have to pay for my DD to go on holiday with my sister?

TeaAndBrie · 2020-07-12 17:25:22

My DD was due to go on holiday with grandparents in the summer. This has been cancelled due to covid and grandparents shielding. My sister had already booked her holiday at a caravan park with her DH and two sons. Rented caravan from a friend £200 for a week. When she found out that my DD's holiday was cancelled she invited her along on there holiday. Very kind of her but I wasn't asked if it was okay before she asked DD. I have every intention of contributing some money for food etc for the week although hadn't yet decided how much. I've had about 5 messages from my sister in the last week telling me she's paying for the holiday next week. I have said I will send my DD with a contribution towards the week at the time of the holiday. I don't really think I should have to pay towards the caravan itself though aswell as it would be the same price whether DD went or not? Aibu? Also, how much do you think would be reasonable to contribute for 6 days for a 14 year old for food etc? I'm thinking about £50?

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The OP's really grateful for all the responses to this thread but is anxious that it's going to cause further problems in real life. We don't want to cause any family ructions here, so we're going to take this down for her.