I have a 1 year old DS who I love dearly. He wasn't planned but we thank our lucky stars each day to have had him.
I have known my 'friend' for about 8 years we were really close for a while then I got pregnant. She stopped talking to me other than general bits and pieces and decided not to invite me to her wedding even though we had gone dress shopping together etc. I decided that she had just moved on with her life and I should too!
I'm still friends with her on snapchat and Facebook. She has been trying to get pregnant on and off for a year now and either the pregnancy hasn't happened or in some cases she has miscarried.
She recently put on her Facebook that she was seeing a specialist etc and she just didn't understand why she couldn't get pregnant, when she's not posting this she posts about her drinking until she's black out drunk, taking various drugs etc. I get annoyed with this because she's been told by said professional that if she wants to have a chance she needs to cut these things out for a couple of months at the minimum. At the end of the month there is always a post with a negative pregnancy test saying that not even professionals are helping etc. Whenever she has popped this on her social media I've checked in with her and let her know I'm here if she needs me etc. Normally she just ignores me but occasionally she's got angry and told me I rub it in her face if I put a picture of DS on my social media. I politely said that she was free to unfollow me and we haven't really spoken since. Recently she put a status up saying that it's sad that some selfish people can't understand how much they hurt her with their lives. I am hurt by this because I have only posted periodically and those are just general updates as most people on my social media are family who live away from the area and a few close friends.
AIBU to feel like this. I have always been there for her and helped her pick up the pieces but I feel that she is now becoming her own downfall especially with the drink and drugs!
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To be annoyed by a friend being annoyed at me!
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decisionsdecision · 04/07/2020 15:31
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