I have a 9 year old who 70% of the time I would say was your 'typical' 9 year old, has lots of friends, academically clever, enjoys playing out, does various clubs etc etc. Then other times I think there's something not right. They were showing signs of dyspraxia, incredibly clumsy, no spacial awareness, difficulty with fine motor skills etc etc. But theres more than that. They went through a stage of having panic attacks just randomly at night. They have major meltdowns . Proper full on tantrums, screaming and crying and throwing themselves on floor like a toddler. Their work is deteriorating to the point u cant actually read their writing. They have developed a sort of a tic where they make random grunting, squealing, coughing noises. It's not all the time or every day by any means but is def noticable when its there. They randomly lie like u will be sat there and they will suddenly scream and shout why did u hit me when their brother hasnt even touched them. They have a 'fake' cry where they just start screaming and crying when they dont want to do something. When I speak to family they say they are just playing up, being naughty but I think theres more to it. I have other children who can be challenging and this is more than just been naughty. Yday they had a breakdown about doing school work and their eyes were literally rolling and jaw was pushing out. Other times they are like a zombie, staring and dont respond when u speak. Sometimes I look at them running and jumping and playing football and think theres nothing wrong then other times they are flopping about can barely hold up their head or a pencil. I've been to a dr about the dyspraxic stuff but I didnt know how to explain the other stuff. I did mention the panic attacks as those were happening at the time but they havent had one for a while. And it's difficult cos they dont behave like this all the time but when they do I'm worried it not 'typical' behaviour. They are also extremely untidy, disorganised, puts clothes on wrong way, get in shower and manages to get out still dirty.
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