An ex-friend has really got under my skin. Met her 10 years ago when she moved nearby, children similar age. Made friends, appeared to be similar in family setup etc.
She told me things about her DH and marriage - he'd sat her at the table and said he didn't love her, was only there for the kids / she said they all live on eggshells / he has bad temper / shouts at DC / he's all right if she "gives him sex", otherwise not / she'd looked up a small house to rent to see if she could afford it.
I listened, confirmed it wasn't ok. My exh was similar, I shared one thing but wasn't anything like her story.
Anyway, my DH got worse, I divorced him, now living happily nearby.
She was the ONLY person whose friendship I lost. She clearly took sides (his), told everyone the poor man how will he cope story (whilst ignoring the unkind alcohol dependent version of him), invited my DC and him around for Mother's Day when he wouldn't let them see me ("it's not your weekend"). Whilst we slept on the floor at new house, she accepted the DC bedroom furniture from him. Etc.etc.
Generally been an unkind, unthinking cow whilst skipping round being sweetness and light.
AIBU to struggle with my feelings when I see her? I genuinely never want to cross her path ever again, but she's the sort of person who is in everyone's face.
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Longlockdown · 30/06/2020 08:55
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