Hi everyone! Just wanted some opinions whether I was being sensitive here and overreacting about a situation that’s happened recently.
I bought my youngest brother in law a birthday gift from Selfridges from a brand I’ve seen him wear a lot. Usually my (now) DH would get him something from both of us, but since we got married a few months ago we thought it’d be nice if I picked out something for him from myself. I initially wanted to give a gift card but DH insisted it wasn’t personal enough so I bought an expensive item of clothing that I thought was his style. I asked DH’s opinion and he agreed that it was lovely and he’d appreciate it
Now.. brother in law wants me to return the gift and give him money instead. He didn’t tell me directly but MIL told me that he doesn’t like it and would prefer if I returned it and gave him money instead.
Am I right to be a bit annoyed at this or am I being unreasonable?
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Jamielynn · 26/06/2020 18:50
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Am I being unreasonable?
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