Looking for opinions on this situation.
Elderly lady has recently died and her jewelery is being divided between female family, one daughter and six granddaughters.
As she did not specify who was to have what, it's for the family to decide. Majority of the jewellery is of little financial value but very sentimental, either she had most her life or were past down from her mother/grandmother.
The part I'm looking for opinions on comes down to the granddaughters. They are all adults. The lady had a close relationship with three of them and when they got older they would visit her frequently, make meals for her when she was ill etc. The other three didn't give her the time of day at all. She always got them a gift at birthday's and Christmas and never got a word of thanks. They chose never to visit her off their own backs, and when they were suggested to do so when she had little time left to live they wouldn't, nor when she was in hospital extremely ill. They knew it was now or never and chose never.
Do you think that the three granddaughters who chose not to be in her life are entitled to some of her jewellery collection now she's passed away?
YABU - they should still get
YANBU - they shouldn't get
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Deceased grandmother's jewelery
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Cheeseaandbiscuits · 24/06/2020 20:54
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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You are NOT being unreasonable
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Cheeseaandbiscuits ·
24/06/2020 21:05
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