My first grandchild has been born. My son and his girlfriend were not together at the time she became pregnant and she had sexual relationships with two other men in that time that they were broken up. But she told him the dates match and that he’s the father. He accepted this. Baby has been born and I love her so much. DS’s dad however (my ex) is certain that DS is not the dad. He says the babies skin is too dark, she has dark eyes (dark blue as most Caucasian babies have) and dark hair. DS is blonde and fair.
I have become very attached to the baby but whenever I share my excitement I’m told “be careful” “try to detach just incase” etc etc ...
The social services are involved and are acting as though DS is definitely the dad. AIBU to decide it doesn’t matter if he isn’t?? I’ve already become attached.
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Does it matter if he’s not the dad?
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SquishyBones · 23/06/2020 19:38
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Am I being unreasonable?
222 votes. Final results.
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You are being unreasonable
49%
You are NOT being unreasonable
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