‘Where are you from?’
I’m dating. I get asked it an awful lot.
I’m a white, English born Brit but have dark features. I tan well and get mistaken for Western European quite often. I might be misconstruing the question and they mean ‘where are you based’ - but that’s right there on my profile so I don’t think it’s that.
I feel like I’m being fetishised a bit. Well not me specifically, but the thought that I look Spanish or Italian and that sounds exciting to them.
And I never know how to answer. I’m not ‘born and bred’ in one county as I’ve moved around a bit so it feels awkward to answer.
AIBU or is it a bit rude to ask that a few messages into a conversation?
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AIBU?
To think this is a really awkward question
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TalkingToGhosts · 23/06/2020 19:05
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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You are NOT being unreasonable
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