So in a bit of a situation and just want some advice as to whether what to do...
Ex partner is a key worker so hasnt seen his kids since February.
Hes constantly playing games with maintenance and contact anyway before lockdown started not to mention the abuse I get off his girlfriend.
Now hes asking to see them, he asked last weekend but i was ill suspected covid so we were self isolating, I tested negative but still feel bad, explained to him that no lockdown is still happening and i dont want to put the girls under any stress after keeping them safe for weeks and we end up sick
He says that im being ridiculous and lockdown is pretty much over when everything opens on 4th July and I cannot stop him seeing his kids.
I told him he can come and practice social distancing whilst seeing them in our garden given the weather is going to be nice, he says that hes going to take me back to court and he will get 50/50 custody and his gf will be a better mum than I am..
I'm so upset, I dont think he knows how hard lock down is, with the kids being at home and me and hubby trying to work too plus Im still not feeling well.
Should I just give in and let him have them?
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Mum2Girls19 · 23/06/2020 11:32
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Am I being unreasonable?
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