Ex partner and I separated when dd was a baby. She is now 14 years old.
He moved abroad when we split and has paid just over £100 each month in maintenance. This was by mutual agreement as he was living overseas.
There was no contact for the first 3 years then it was minimal. In the last 4 years he has seen her once or twice a year for 3 nights.
I have in the past and again recently sent him a link to the csa calculator online and asked him to take a look and adjust accordingly taking off a bit as I'm not greedy, but what he pays doesn't even cover her subs as a competitive athlete. He has a very well paid job for a major international company and nd by my estimations should be paying at least triple what he is. He has ignored this each time. He is moving to the UK next month as has a promotion within the company now working for the UK branch.
WIBU to go to the CSA once he is back on uk soil?
For what it's worth, we have both remarried and each have another child in the new relationships.
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to go through the csa without telling him?
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Boofips · 23/06/2020 03:21
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Am I being unreasonable?
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