I know I love him but I don't know if I'm in love with him. Sorry for the cliche.
We've had a baby 7 months ago and since then it's just changed. Our relationship isn't loving or affectionate we just exist and look after baby. We've only been together around 3 year and he's ten years older than me but that's never been a problem before.
It's hard to explain how I feel. I feel like I don't care about kissing and cuddling him and I find myself snapping at him. If I ask him to do anything he gets mad that I speak to him like I'm his mum or I'm moody etc.
He's just as bad as he's so miserable and although fantastic with our baby, he's so irritating when it comes to cooking and cleaning. If he does anything around the house, he has to be praised and feels like he deserves a free pass either to go to his mates or to not help with babies bed time.
Since our baby, I don't feel attracted to him. I used think he was the most beautiful man and now, whilst I know he's attractive, I don't feel that sexual impulse or butterflies. I don't want to break up but I've felt like this for 7 months now and it's not getting better.
I know I love him but did anyone else fall out of love after baby? Does it get better? Should I stay and work at it or is it time to accept our relationship has run its course? Any advice welcome please
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cupofteaaa · 22/06/2020 19:42
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