My childs father usually has our daughter every other weekend (family arrangement order). We agreed at the start of lockdown that he wouldn't have her due to me being pregnant and he is a key worker so the risks were too high. Fast forward to now....this weekend was his first weekend with our daughter as I've now had my baby and it had been a long time that they hadn't seen each other. He reassured me he had stuck to guidlines and will be continuing to do so....buuuut my daughter has come home and told me that she has been out playing at the field near her dads house with lots of kids, not kept distance as been playing tag etc and her dad was at home!!!! They also visited some friends and family went inside houses and gave the cuddles and kisses. My daughter is 6 so I am mortified she has even been out without her father plus all the added extra. I have tried to speak to her dad but he doesnt see any harm in what he's done/doing!!!!! I have told him he is not to see her now as I am not willing to take those risks for my daughter and my family... I just need to hear that I'm not being unreasonable and I'm doing what any other parent would do???
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Childs father not following gov guidlines (covid-19)
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Ellshuts · 22/06/2020 14:14
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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