Since lockdown my DCs haven't been to their dad's. My DP is high risk, exh (DCs dad) agreed it was for the best.
DCs dad has, on occasion been to our house to see DCs with social distancing.
Now it's all being relaxed exh is demanding DCs visit. He misses them, needs them, etc.
I do feel for him in some ways but he's never been a hands-on dad anyway. Doesn't pay maintenence (irrelevant to aibu but for context), goes on multiple holidays while we struggle to pay bills, is publicly (social media) not interested in social distancing.
I'm now having tests for ovarian cancer so multiple hospital visits. Aibu to say he has to wait?
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5plus3 · 21/06/2020 00:04
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
104 votes. Final results.
POLL
You are being unreasonable
74%
You are NOT being unreasonable
26%
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