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JustC Sun 21-Jun-20 08:37:38

Def A. Also, him showing interest in other women when you can see/notice is very disrespectful, and I personally would end it.

FurbabyLife Sun 21-Jun-20 00:31:31

If a guy is into you, there is absolutely no doubt. They will find a way to see you, they will find a way to talk to you.

If you feel like he’s not that into you... he’s not. Plenty more guys out there that will be.

NC4Now Sat 20-Jun-20 23:35:53

Yep, A

Greyandpink Sat 20-Jun-20 23:33:34

Must, he rings me more n mostly initiates the msgs. But in terms of seeing each other i feel its more me, but he does also come over randomly to surprise me.

I think youre right ppl choosing A i need to lay it all out.

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Thelnebriati Sat 20-Jun-20 23:30:05

C) end it yourself isn't an option? Its the early days, there's supposed to be a spark between you, he's supposed to show a bit of enthusiasm. Instead he never contacts you first, and when he's there he isnt, he's looking at other women.

Prayerwheel Sat 20-Jun-20 23:29:23

OP, in the nicest possible way, there’s a total disconnect between the part of your post that says you’re considering moving in together and the bit that describes an unaffectionate, unenthusiastic man you see once or twice a week, and only then if you initiate it. You’re flogging a dead horse here. You deserve someone who genuinely wants to be in your life.

missrks Sat 20-Jun-20 23:26:53

Tell him you need some reassurance that it's all going in the right direction. It doesn't need to be an ultimatum. Just that you're feeling a little bit unsure of his feelings. If he isn't responsive to that then at least you know where you stand.

Notimeforaname Sat 20-Jun-20 23:26:53

A. Tell him and see how he responds.

Twigletfairy Sat 20-Jun-20 23:26:32

You need to talk to him. Tell him how you feel and go from there

Notimeforaname Sat 20-Jun-20 23:26:18

Yes I would ask him flat out.

Notimeforaname Sat 20-Jun-20 23:25:04

Ah sorry op! Just saw your next post!

VesperLynne Sat 20-Jun-20 23:24:49

You need to know where you stand. No point investing in a relationship that’s going nowhere.

Notimeforaname Sat 20-Jun-20 23:24:33

Is there a 'B)'?

Greyandpink Sat 20-Jun-20 23:23:35

Sorry pressed post too soon

A) tell him how i feel n see what he says

Or B) Take a bit of a back seat n see if he initiates etc.

I feel like hes showing alot of interest in other girls too, on the street via instagram etc.

Maybe im being sensitive.

Any thoughts? Xx

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Greyandpink Sat 20-Jun-20 23:20:58

Ive been with my bf for a year and a bit, were in our 30's and have a child each. Talks of buying a house together, we get on good with each others friends and fam. He lives an hour from me so we see each other maybe once or twice a week.

Lately i just feel like hes not that into us. Also, so when i met him i was roughly the size i am maybe few pounds lighter but not loads. Im mid size so not skinny but not the other end either. But i do wonder if thats contributing.

Hes not very affectionate, also its always me initiating seeing each other.

I dont know.

Should i...

A) Tell him how i feel n see

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