DH was watching TV. I went in the room to join him and put the light on as I was going to knit. When I'd finished my knitting, and without thinking, as I left the room I turned off the light. Totally on autopilot, didn't realise I'd done it. Bit later, I'm working in the kitchen when DH comes in and turns the light off. I pipe up, 'oy, working here', to which he says, 'that's what you did to me earlier'.
When I asked him why he didn't just ask me to put the light back on, he said, 'I didn't need it to watch tv' - err so why turn it off on me. 'it was just a joke'
It's always 'just a joke' when he does things like this, but it feels mildly agressive the way he does it and the way he speaks.
Am I being over-sensitive or is he being a bit of an arse?
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AIBU to think this is passive-agressive
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youkiddingme · 20/06/2020 22:34
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Am I being unreasonable?
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