The title says it. But does not say it all.
DD1 is just 19. I love her dearly. She is in well established recovery from very severe anorexia (as bad as it gets; 3 years to get her to where she is now).
She is due to go to university this coming October (she missed a year on account of her ill health). The lockdown has affected her mental health but I thought she was coping. I am very supportive of her.
She had a boyfriend just prior to lockdown. He lives alone. One year older. Has mental health issues of his own. She feels responsible for him. They argue constantly over the phone. I believe he gaslights her and is not faithful. He takes money from her. He is verbally abusive. Possibly physically too. She says she loves him.
I feel so incensed I want to phone him up and tell him to fuck off.
DD1 is presently crying in her room as another friend has told her he has been unfaithful.
DD1 is formidably intelligent and talented. She is also strikingly beautiful and attracts attention she cannot really cope with.
I should possibly back off and leave her to get on with it. But her recovery was so hard won (she was sectioned, tube fed, nearly died) I just can’t stand by and let all her effort to get better “go to waste”.
I really love her. Would do anything for her. This is not about me. I just want to do what is best.
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Tell me to stop interfering in the life of my 19 year old daughter.
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LadyMacbethWasMisunderstood · 20/06/2020 19:58
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