I am 6+3 with our 2nd baby. My partner is unhelpful to say the least and down right rude and obnoxious at best. This morning I had to go and wake him up 3 times to get his eldest ready for school (my DSS). Slightly later I was sat watching cartoons with DS1 (18mo) having made us both tea. Couldn't face my brew 🤢. The dog made a very repulsive smell so I asked DP to let him out. He responded by saying to DSS "apparently I'm not allowed a cup of tea because Late has to tell me what to do all the time". I get told off for prodding them both along in the morning but he just won't step up and sort himself and his eldest out. They were late again. I got shouted at for making juice for DP to take to work because I apparently shouted at him to not pour it out. I'd just it the concentrate in.
He has shouted and sworn at me in front of both children and said "I Hope your mood improves" meaning it's all my fault. I feel like he is gaslighting me and I am doubting myself.
Sorry for the ramble, I can't get this straight in my head
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DaffodilsAndDandelions · 18/06/2020 09:24
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