Name changed for this as it's a bit outing!
So dh is 10 years older than me which means his group of friends are all older and therefore their kids are older!
Dh has just spoken to one of his friends and they are organising a big holiday for early 2022 in a villa and have invited us to go along with 5 other couples. Dh has said that we would love to but wouldn't be able to leave the kids behind (they will be 9 & 14), we don't have anyone to leave them with and judge me or not but I wouldn't want to leave them for 10 days. We just about get a babysitter for a night out!!
His mate said he is sure it's fine to take them but will ask the rest of the group but aibu to just say no now?
6 couples no kids and we want to throw an 9 and 14 year old into the mix? Surely they will now feel obliged to say yes but secretly they will all be a bit pissed off that we are changing the whole dynamic of their amazing holiday?
Would you be pissed off at two kids coming along? Would it not turn it into a very different holiday?!
So aibu to say no even if they say it's fine? Dh says if they say yes then we should go...
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barbadosbound · 17/06/2020 11:16
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