I need some clarity as I am not sure if my suspicious feelings are because of events as of late which I'll get to..
3 years ago, DP went to a lunch with his family as his grandmother who he never really sees was visiting. He has a bit of a love-hate relationship with his family so usually texts me throughout. At one point he said his parents/DGM had gone and him and his DS(sister) were going for a walk. He went out of contact for a short time. After, he said DSis had been upset.
A few days later when I saw him (we didn't live together at the time) he said how his DSis had told him a secret but that she made him swear not to tell me and he was keeping that. I found it annoying he even mentioned it. It was approx. 6 months before his sister's wedding.
Just under a year ago, DP and I were away for the weekend and he has since fallen out with his DSis. I brought up the secret and he finally told me. She had cheated on her partner (now husband and father of her child) with a man at work, his wife found out and had called her and she was unsure what to do.
I wasn't shocked but never really thought about it again. We saw his DS this weekend and she was talking about a friend of hers and how that friend had cheated on her now-husband many years ago, when they were back at University. She made an unnecessary comment: "she can't have liked him that much to cheat on him"
Now that made my stomach go. To not drip feed, about a month ago I caught DP out in a big lie/deceit web about something online (not porn) and we are currently dealing with the trust that has been broken.
So I suppose I am wondering if someone who has cheated would make such a statement? DP says she was overcompensating.
But I am now wondering if there's more to the story as it's playing on my mind.
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katiehall1 · 17/06/2020 11:06
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