My DS is 6, and lives in a co-parent family situation, one week with me, one week with his father.
Today ive implemented some chores when DS is with me, and i shall reward him with some 'pocket money' to spend as he likes at the end of the week - I was thinking things like: hoovering, emptying or loading dishwasher, polishing or dusting a small area of the house- a job or two a day, nothing too taxing -
Today I tried it out with a bag of dry washing for DS to put away - hang clothes, put items in sock draw etc.
Lots of moaning - boring, can't do it etc, and eventually I found him sat in his wardrobe crying, he has a child size wardrobe, child size hangers, everything accessible - i told him he was being daft and to get it done- which he did.
However i do question myself though, at his dads he has siblings and I think he has an all around better time - i don't want to push my son away by 'making him do chores' or feel like mummy's house is no fun' In the same breathe, I want to bring up a son who is capable of running a household & doesn't expect to be waited on.
I also would have probably started this younger if I'm honest, if I didnt have this awful 50/50 situation.
I was brought up not expected to lift a finger and when I went on my own I found it hard to adjust and learn.
AIBU to expect my 6 year old to help around the house?
Do your DCs help you?
If you have older DCs who helped from young, has it made them better growing adults?
I'm finding trying to find a balance between two different households so difficult, and guilt inducing!
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Littlebyerockerboo · 16/06/2020 13:16
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