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I know I’m being nosey but

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Allsorts2020 Mon 15-Jun-20 20:08:53

My neighbours sit in their garden from 10am until 9pm in her pjs. I think they’re married. Around early 30’s. The woman doesn’t work (ever since I moved here years ago) the guy is at home at the mo with all this Covid. They don’t have any kids and she is always bossing him around and doing 90% of the talking from What I overhear.

I just find it strange.

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OutOfHours Mon 15-Jun-20 20:10:09

What part?

KingOfDogShite Mon 15-Jun-20 20:11:05

I’m in the garden I my pjs at the moment.

What a scandal!

HappyHammy Mon 15-Jun-20 20:11:09

Why is it strange. What would be acceptable to you.

StormzyInaDCup Mon 15-Jun-20 20:11:25

It's really none of your business as long as it's not impacting on you @Allsorts2020

heartsonacake Mon 15-Jun-20 20:11:54

What’s strange about it? confused

Patsypie Mon 15-Jun-20 20:11:56

None of your business. You don't know anything about their situation.

birthdaybelle Mon 15-Jun-20 20:13:22

That is a long time to sit in the garden for. What are they doing?

Allsorts2020 Mon 15-Jun-20 20:13:38

Sitting in the garden 11 hours a day. Also that she doesn’t go to work. Bossing her husband around. Previously I’ve seen him come home from work and straight into the garden to cut the grass and she sits on a stool watching him... she watches him paint the fence. He puts the bins out every week. She seems to do nothing

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Allsorts2020 Mon 15-Jun-20 20:14:26

Yeh it’s none of my business. I just think it’s odd.

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StormzyInaDCup Mon 15-Jun-20 20:14:41

@Allsorts2020 she could be disabled and not able to do this herself... I really don't get why your so invested.

heartsonacake Mon 15-Jun-20 20:15:20

I think it’s strange you’re so invested in your neighbours.

Allsorts2020 Mon 15-Jun-20 20:15:32

@ birthdaybelle just talking. Usually just hear her chatting and him agreeing.

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HelmutShmacker Mon 15-Jun-20 20:16:30

Maybe she has an invisible illness?

Allsorts2020 Mon 15-Jun-20 20:16:51

Lol I’m not invested. It’s just something Ive noticed. She seems able bodied to me but yeh she could have an impairment that’s not obvious I suppose. Seems pretty vocal when it comes to moaning about parking

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Hysteriawhenyourenear Mon 15-Jun-20 20:17:10

Allsorts2020

My neighbours sit in their garden from 10am until 9pm in her pjs. I think they’re married. Around early 30’s. The woman doesn’t work (ever since I moved here years ago) the guy is at home at the mo with all this Covid. They don’t have any kids and she is always bossing him around and doing 90% of the talking from What I overhear.

I just find it strange.

So is her husband in her pj's? Maybe he's cold. Or are they both in her pj's? Lucky woman. And does he wear her pj's when he puts the bin out?

Allsorts2020 Mon 15-Jun-20 20:17:34

And gets hostile if anyone parks by her house.

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FTMF30 Mon 15-Jun-20 20:20:33

You are invested. You posted to chat about it on here😂

FlamingoAndJohn Mon 15-Jun-20 20:20:36

She could have an illness. Something comfortable would explain the PJs, same for the sitting outside I know then FIL was very ill with cancer the only place he felt comfortable was in a certain chair in a certain part of the garden.

heartsonacake Mon 15-Jun-20 20:20:57

Yep, you are invested. You watch them, listen to them to know exactly what they’re talking about and their movements and then post about them on the internet.

That’s not normal behaviour; you’re intrusive and strange.

FTMF30 Mon 15-Jun-20 20:21:24

It's fun to have strange neighbours anyway.

DanielRicciardosSmile Mon 15-Jun-20 20:23:37

To be fair, I'd find it odd if two people were sharing one pair of pyjamas.

ChubbyPigeon Mon 15-Jun-20 20:24:07

Why dont you just start a thread saying 'reasons I dont like my neighbour'

Its not that you 'just find it strange'

Keepthebloodynoisedown Mon 15-Jun-20 20:28:07

I live in pjs/ lounge wear and don’t have a job. I have an invisible illness, which I’m not about to start telling my neighbours about.

Turnedouttoes Mon 15-Jun-20 20:30:57

Maybe they have a dominant/submissive relationship and get off on her bossing him around. I love a bit of neighbour watching

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