I know, it's awful and people are desperate to see relatives but honestly I'm so relieved.
There has been lots of hospital stays over the past two years and each time she is vile because she wants to go home but can't and blames it on me.
She has carers but they now refusing to help with medication. This is causing me so much anxiety, I'm back at work tomorrow after 10 weeks on furlough so I'm not sure how i can fit it all in.
She's in hospital with UTI, has dementia and addisons and a whole other list of comorbidities.
Is it bad that I'm sort of pleased because i don't have to worry? She was admitted at 4am after waking her neighbours convinced there were people in her house. I went round at 1am and couldn't calm her down. She was fine at 12 midday but deteriorated during the day. I was going to pop in at 7pm but decided not to as she was fine when I left her and I figured the carers would call me with any concerns. I am pretty pissed off as they recorded mum's agitated state and reports of people in her house and a man down the road watching her telly in her car - she couldn't find the remote control and I think this triggered it.
My brain needs some time when I'm.not on edge. But I feel bad
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