I am in an unhappy, dysfunctional marriage. We rarely are able to go a day without fighting, although occasionally we are able to plod along and things are okay. DS can swing from being super loving and saying he can't live without me, I am the love of his life etc to being very nasty in an argument. I know in my heart I want out and want to be free although that would mean breaking up the family. I know this isn't a healthy upbringing If we didn't have kids I would have left him years ago. I worry about the practicalities of being a single parent especially as DS 2 has special needs. We rent so we wouldn't have to worry about a joint mortgage. We split briefly last year, I rely on him 100% for childcare while I work 3 days a week and during our split he came to the house looked after the kids. I wonder how this sort of set up would work in the long term and financially if I would still get child support as they would still be living with me? I also worry that he would be difficult should we split. Ive been on auto pilot and planned to stay together until the kids have grown up although I know this isn't healthy.
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Staying together for the sake of the kids
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legolegolegolego · 14/06/2020 09:29
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Am I being unreasonable?
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