DD1 (8 years old) had a massive crying breakdown this morning and didn't want to go to school. DH is a key worker and so she and her sister are both going as key worker children, whilst DS is in Reception, so he's eligible to go in anyway. We'd decided to send them in because it felt important that they had some semi-normality - I was dx with leukaemia at the start of lockdown and have been in and out of hospital for treatment, so it's difficult to manage things purely from a logistical point of view.
She said she is terrified of us all getting the virus and dying and her being left on her own. She is worried that I am going to die anyway. And she doesn't like me not being well. She just wants everything to go back to normal.
She also said at school they've been doing lots of circle time and talking about how they feel about the virus every day and sharing their "worry" thoughts. She says she doesn't like doing it because it just makes the worries bigger in her head. She just wants normal school.
DH (teacher) is not keen on all the "sharing" stuff because he thinks it encourages the younger kids to feel that they should be worried and scared. He wants to talk to the school. But I just feel terrible because I honestly thought I was doing okay at building a sort of "normality" for the kids and I felt they were happy, or at least coping. And now it turns out DD has been bottling all this up and I didn't even realise.
How can I be a better parent? 😕
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Jourdain11 · 12/06/2020 21:49
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