I am seeking opinions from other Muma’s.
I am a new mum with a 4 month old baby. I am from the UK and my husband is from NZ, we are currently in the UK in lockdown.
My husband wanted to go back to NZ so his family could meet our son, which I too want but after conversation we decided it was too much for our little one and muma as I am breastfeeding, the flight is around 40 hours with two weeks quarantine the other side in a single room, my husband now wants to go on his own to see his family. Which I completely get and support, however, I don’t think now is the right time. Our son is going through his 4 month sleep regression and has become hardwork, very fussy at feeding times and during the night as well, so we are getting very little sleep!
I feel like his responsibility is with his wife and son and while I understand he misses his family and wants to visit them I think he should stay especially considering the current climate across the world... he is planning to go for 6 weeks!!
I want to know if I’m being unreasonable in asking him to stay?
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C2693B · 12/06/2020 17:56
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
246 votes. Final results.
POLL
You are being unreasonable
6%
You are NOT being unreasonable
94%
SparklingIsolation ·
12/06/2020 17:58
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