My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

AIBU?

Was I being a CF?

123 replies

101stNC · 12/06/2020 14:24

I have regular treatments at a private aesthetics clinic, ran by a husband and wife.

Before lockdown they were running a promotion, offering the treatment I usually have at a reduced rate.

I booked in but the appointment was cancelled due to the pandemic hitting.

The wife of the couple sent me a text and said she had spoken with her husband and because I'm a loyal customer they will honour the discounted price next time I go.

Fast forward to now and they have been given the go ahead to reopen at a reduced capacity so i booked in.

It was just the husband in today so when I arrived I queried whether the discounted rate still applied and he said he didn't have a clue what I was talking about. I told him about the text from his wife and offered to show him, he said it wasn't necessary as he believed me but also because customers can't use their phones inside the practice. They are taking several precautions due to the virus.

He explained that because they've not been taking bookings for three months they're not in a position to do that, to which I replied that I understood completely and am more than happy to pay full price.

I don't know whether it was due to my embarrassment but the atmosphere was then very awkward and uncomfortable.

Was I being a CF?

OP posts:
Report

Am I being unreasonable?

387 votes. Final results.

POLL
You are being unreasonable
3%
You are NOT being unreasonable
97%
TranielleRadcliffe · 12/06/2020 14:25

I wouldn’t say so as his wife had said they would honour the discount...

Report
TestingTestingWonTooFree · 12/06/2020 14:25

You were not a CF. She said it would be honoured, it should be honoured.

Report
PolkaDotsPolka · 12/06/2020 14:28

No you're not. If she said it would be honoured then it should have been.

Report
TranielleRadcliffe · 12/06/2020 14:30

I think you were very reasonable to say you were happy to pay full price.

Report
Fairybatman · 12/06/2020 14:31

I’d go so far as to say text her and say that you paid full price today because you want to support the business and don’t want to cause ill feeling, but would they consider honouring the discount code n your next visit?

Report
WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 12/06/2020 14:31

No, he was the CF, if anybody - but I do sympathise with the fact that times must be very difficult for them right now. Plus the fact that they presumably offered the promotion to try to drum up more business and now they're inundated with all of the customers they couldn't treat through all of those lost weeks.

Report
101stNC · 12/06/2020 14:38

Thank you for the responses.

I was embarrassed I came across like an entitled CF. I was actually toying with the idea of apologising for raising it in the first place.

I didn't in the end, I just paid and left but I spent the journey home feeling baffled and embarrassed.

I hope he raises it with his wife later on and she reiterates what she said, also the fact she said she had already discussed with him Confused

OP posts:
Report
Skyliner001 · 12/06/2020 14:39

No

Report
BillBaileysBum · 12/06/2020 14:41

How much difference are we talking?

I think you were in the right, but for a tenner I’d let it go. A hundred, not so much.

Was it Botox? No one has reopened here....

Report
101stNC · 12/06/2020 14:45

The difference in price was £50 and yes it was for botox.

Pre empting a flaming as I don't expect cosmetic procedures go down well on here but it's a personal choice and one I'm happy with

OP posts:
Report
WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 12/06/2020 14:46

He might genuinely have forgotten, or he might have known perfectly well but felt too embarrassed to say that they no longer wanted to honour it under their current circumstances.

Either way, businesses have had nearly three months with no business whatsoever, so now being able to get some half-price (or whatever) business and maintaining goodwill with a longstanding regular customer surely makes sense?

I know they couldn't have known about the pandemic, but I do hate it when some businesses will advertise an amazing offer and then try to make you feel guilty for taking them up on it. If the offer price isn't sustainable with your longer-term business goals, don't offer it in the first place!

Report
Waveysnail · 12/06/2020 14:48

They offered in the discount. You were within your rights to ask. No u were being cf

Report
amijustparanoidorjuststoned · 12/06/2020 14:49

You were not a CF at all OP.

On a side note... is this in England?? I didn't think any hairdressers/beauty/aesthetic salons could open until July...?!

Report
WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 12/06/2020 14:49

Pre empting a flaming as I don't expect cosmetic procedures go down well on here but it's a personal choice and one I'm happy with

Nobody's business but yours - you pays your money and you takes your choice. Just would have been nicer for you to have paid your lower amount of money, as had been agreed Smile

Report
101stNC · 12/06/2020 14:49

Absolutely.

The sad part is I'm actually on the fence as to whether I want to return now, I'm not that bothered about the money but I don't bode well in awkward situations.

It is the only aesthetic clinic I've ever used and I was a very loyal customer, I even provided a video testimonial for their website singing their praises.

OP posts:
Report
1FootInTheRave · 12/06/2020 14:49

How come aesthetics places are allowed open and hairdressers aren't?

Report
101stNC · 12/06/2020 14:52

I'm in England yes, the South East.

They are taking alot of measures to reduce the risk of the virus. Temperature check upon entry, then hand sanitizer and gloves for the customer. No phone usage or touching any other personal belongings whilst in the building and the practitioners wear masks and gloves throughout.

OP posts:
Report
101stNC · 12/06/2020 14:53

No idea why they've been allowed to open and hair dressers have not.

I can only imagine it's to do with the time spent in the building, it's very much in and out.

OP posts:
Report
CharityDingle · 12/06/2020 14:53

No, not a CF. If they agreed the discount, you should have received it.

Report
Jeremyironsnothing · 12/06/2020 14:54

YABU for being in close contact with another person - unless you live abroad, but even then you are putting vanity before safety.

But no they should have honoured the discount. He could have explained the situation and given you the choice.

Report
harriethoyle · 12/06/2020 14:55

@101stNC no judgement here... I can't WAIT for my beautician to reopen!

Report
RedHelenB · 12/06/2020 14:59

You needed to be more assertive. You'd agreed the discount price when you rebooked and that is what you should have paid. Now they may lose your custom cos you're embarrassed

Report

Don’t want to miss threads like this?

Weekly

Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

RedHelenB · 12/06/2020 15:00

And you ve lost a beauty place you liked.

Report
101stNC · 12/06/2020 15:02

I'm the least assertive person I know, unless I'm absolutely certain that I'm in the right.

I wasn't sure as I was caught off guard and then felt bad for even entertaining the idea of a discount when they'd been out of work for several months.

OP posts:
Report
Nofunkingworriesmate · 12/06/2020 15:02

You paid for a discount block of treatments, did not get all of them

And offered to pay full price -WHY?

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.