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AIBU?

Asking for money owed

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themummyway · 11/06/2020 22:57

I lent someone money about 18 months ago.

We agreed a repayment deadline (about 18 months to go), however as we're no longer on speaking terms, I'd really like my money back ASAP.

AIBU for asking for it back now? Or should I wait?
We signed a contract so there's no worry there.

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Am I being unreasonable?

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AuntyRigsby · 11/06/2020 23:01

I'd say that's unreasonable and probably unenforceable. You should stick to what you agreed.

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Ellisandra · 11/06/2020 23:04

YABU. You agreed terms.

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LovingLola · 11/06/2020 23:05

Are the repayments being made according to the agreement?

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Purpleartichoke · 11/06/2020 23:25

You can’t change the terms just because you feel like it.

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ECBC · 11/06/2020 23:34

Your contract is there for a reason. You can’t just change your mind, in the same way the other party cannot

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Frozenfan2019 · 11/06/2020 23:35

I think it's fine to contact the and ask. It's not fine to demand or put pressure.

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carexfairex · 11/06/2020 23:38

Are they making regular payments or it this a deferred loan?

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copperoliver · 12/06/2020 00:04

You are being unreasonable unless they don't stick to the terms. X

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