I have a friend who has been married a few years now to a very nice man who I'm also friendly with. She rang up very upset as she'd rowed with her DH. They're usually quite sensible so I thought it must have been a serious issue.
Her DH is WFH now so his travel pass has been suspended since April - saving him (apparently) hundreds of pounds. She doesn't work from home so isn't really saving anything. She just found out today about his non-pass. I said 'That's great. What's the problem?' She said 'He won't share'.
I was shocked and said she needs to have a serious chat with him about money and partnership etc. She agreed and hung up.
He rang me huffing and puffing (having heard her tale) and gave me his side of the story - he told her in passing, didn't think it would be a problem for him to keep the money as he pays for the bus pass himself. It's not out of their joint account. He's not even going to spend it on anything silly, he just wants to save it. She wants to buy a handbag with (a decent) part of it.
YANBU - it's money for saving
YABU - your friend should get a treat
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redwinefine · 11/06/2020 19:14
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