AIBU to not know how to deal with this?
As DS, 3 is getting bigger he is simply too rough with toys. This past month 3 or 4 quite large items have been broken. I thought after the first couple were put in the bin in front of him (cue huge sobbing fit, apologies etc, begging for us to fix it) that he would get the message but then more things seem to get broken almost daily. Eg forcing things into spaces that don't fit, climbing on toddler trampoline when sibling already on it, applying to much pressure until something cracks etc.
These are not poor quality cheap toys. They are solid heavy duty items. He is supervised but these things can happen in the blink of an eye. When I see rough play starting I remove the item but I still feel too many things are getting damaged, the message is not sinking in.
If he was an only child I would take the view (wasteful as it is :() that he would learn the hard way if every bloody toy gets broken and not replaced.
But this is not fair on DD. These are "general" shared toys, not special items belonging only to him. I also do not want this behaviour carrying over into preschool.
AIBU to need ideas on how to deal with this? He is just so destructive, I can't stand it.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
3 year old breaking toys
8 replies
NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 11/06/2020 13:57
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.