I currently live in the South East. Own my own house, no mortgage. My children are both adults, still currently living at home. One does not work, and has no ties to local area. The other is older, working (currently furloughed) and has lots of friends locally so may not want to move, however is also saving for a property.
I work in London, but due to covid 19 we are now working from home until at least Spring 2021, and it's likely we may never go back to working in the office more than 1-2 days a month at most.
My ex partner lives in another (very lovely, great standard of living) part of the country; our plan was always that we would end up living up there. Later this year he was going to move from his current rented cottage and we'd jointly rent a larger property with a spare room so my children could visit, I could spend a couple of days a week there and it would be more like our home - and the goal was that in 2-3 years we'd buy somewhere up there, I'd move up fully with my kids if they wanted to come and I'd either sell or rent out my current home.
Obviously best laid plans etc and we've now split up. I don't like where I live, never have really and only stayed because it was near London, children were at local schools etc, but it was never where I planned to spend the rest of my life.
I don't have many friends, aside from local ones who are kind of fairweather friends really (we meet up once or twice a year, comment on social media, have a chat if we meet in the street but thats it) and 2 others who are in the Merseyside area. The area I know best outside London is where my Ex is but that's obviously a complete no.
I've always had a plan, for years now, and suddenly I don't, and I hate the thought of living here forever. My neighbours are deeply unpleasant and I have no privacy. I long for a detached house with a garden that isn't overlooked!
Should I go? And where do I go if so?
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In my position would you relocate? and where do I go?
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ellifjg · 10/06/2020 19:15
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