A good friend of mine is getting married, if everything goes to plan, will be getting married in September.
Her sister has ben planning her hen do since the beginning of this year, it's due to take place in about a month. It's quite expensive (about 400-500 for all the activities) but I wanted to be there and celebrate with my friend.
Since then lots has happened, you know the global pandemic and everything. I was forced to take a pay cut, I've had to postpone my own wedding (in August) as key people are shielding and financially it's a lot to spend out on in uncertain times.
The sister has texted this morning to say it's all still going ahead but I'm just not comfortable sharing a house with 8 people who I don't really know very well (with the exception of my friend) who are all from different households. Not to mention the financial implication of paying out for the accommodation and activities.
Everybody, and I mean everybody, else in the group chat all seem to be really happy it's going ahead. Talking about car sharing and who will be sharing a room and I feel like I'm the only one worried about the social distancing aspect. I suffer from asthma, it's mild but it's still a worry for me. I don't know how to reply to any of the messages because I'm worried that I'm the only one who's thinking this and I'll be the party pooper.
AIBU to think that this hen do going ahead is completely nuts given the current circumstances? I have no idea what to say to them or how to tackle the situation (I was pretty social inept before lockdown, I'm now a social disaster)
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Hen Party in July
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ConfusedLlama · 10/06/2020 11:10
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