I have very elderly next door neighbours.
They have no children, and their house is incredibly run down because he is a hoarder and a tight bastard who has always refused to spend any money on the house (they live in two top bedrooms in a 4 bed house as two of the bedrooms and the two downstairs lounges are full of gos hoarding.
I have been doing their shopping in lockdown, pop round every few days, ring most days and am the lifeline necklace thing contact.
She is really lovely, has very few friends, no family, has never been abroad and was an illegitimate child born in the 1930s (I understand this as my dad is the same).
Her husband (I think has really been incredibly abusive towards her) is now blind and she cares for him (they are fine for money but he has never allowed her access to the money) but him being blind has made him dependent on her - which is better for her really as she is slowly getting rid of all the hoarding stuff - we offered to get a skip but she is really independent and we are mindful of this and don’t take over.
She has a mouse infestation and my cats keep bringing them into my house. I was stood in her garden the other day and U could see a few tiny ones and she wax like “oh my goodness I have never seen a mouse here before”.
WTF do I do without taking over and making her feel like shit? The HCA put a note through my door the other week with her mobile but the number is incorrect - I have asked neighbour to ask her to put note through again but I think she hasn’t asked her as she doesn’t like to “put upon” me.
I have mentioned looking at sheltered accommodation but while he’s alive there is no chance 😭😭
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MadameBee · 08/06/2020 22:47
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